16 November 2006

Reasons not to be a Lesbien or an adultress

I knew there was a reason I never wanted to move into a all girls dorm when I started my undergrad, girls (women) can be so caddy, vindictive and out right mean to one another. Something I have never understood is why a female would 'go after' another female say when they find out their boyfriend/ husband has been cheating. It's not the other women who made the commitment to you, she does not (in most cases) owe you a thing. There is the moral issue if the other women knew about the relationship or knew the guy's girlfriend/wife, personally I never would be with a guy who was committed to someone but hey that's me, to each their own. But either way this other female did not make a commitment to you so what's your beef with her, sure you can be mad but fuck it's his doing, I can almost unequivocally state that he had agreed to the cheating.

What brings up this rant you may ask, well I just read an article from one of the local papers a second women, that's right there's at least two, who sued her husband's mistress and received a boat load of money. Even if I ignore the fact that the women sued someone over the demise of their relationship, what the hell are the courts thinking. First and foremost the courts in SA are struggling to keep up with the docket and criminals were in fact released because their what courts appearance wasn't in the proper time frame (the police than had to go and arrest them again, I do understand the need to be fair and everything, no imprisonment without reason... but seriously releasing a guy charge with rape without ever stepping in front of a judge seems very wrong). So their releasing rapist but yet they have time to hear cases of women who sue other women who slept with their husbands, and broke up their marriages. What happen to placing the blame on the men who actually made the commitment to you, and let the fucking court system deal with the fucking criminals.

I just heard a few days ago that the jails here are over full again, so guess what the logical solution to this is going to be, release those prisoners who have served at least 15 years of their sentence. No seriously, oh Fred over their has been here for 16 years out of his 50 that he was sentence, I'm sure he'll be good now. So you have been in jail for more than 15 years (before the end of apartheid) and now is free as a bird, with no skills to speak of, a violent past and entering a over saturated job market to compete with people who have skills, have not been in jail for 15+ years and haven't kill/ raped/ robbed someone, humh wondering what line of work their going to end up in...(again). And just imagine the culture shock some of these people may have, things are a hella of lot different now compare to pre-1994, like I don't a constitution, equal rights. I don't know what the answer is, more jails require more money, and why build a jail or 2 when you have to build several very large stadium for the world cup. Well at least I hope they let us know when all these up standing individuals are released, maybe I'll hide out for a few weeks and let all the idiots who are bound to end back up in jail do their thing, and hopefully be arrest again before I come out to play.

Here's a thought for the day...

-A guy got charge R1000 for not having a TV license, another guy (same day) got released on R500 bail while facing murder charges. Therefore you kill the TV licence guy get on R500 bail, you'll save yourself a few bucks. When released on bail sleep with someone, tell the wife so she can sue her which will postpone your murder trial causing you to be released because it took to long to go to trial. Hide out until you hear the jails are full again then get yourself re-arrested, you might have to spend a bit time in jail until the jail gets over full again but hey, you saved yourself R500, and your ex-wife (hopefully she's divorced your ass) has all that money from the women you slept with so try hook up with her again, and you can be living the high life.

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